Monday, August 16, 2010

Role and Status of Sikh Women

In Indian society, women were usually subject to various caste-rules and severe restrictions. They remained illiterate and were ill-treated. Female infanticide was often practiced.

Guru Nanak challenged the idea of inferiority and evil associated with women and freed her from slavery and taboos of the society. In one of his hymns, he said:

From woman, man is born; within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married. Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come. When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound. So why call her bad? From her, kings are born. From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all. O Nanak, only the True Lord is without a woman. That mouth which praises the Lord continually is blessed and beautiful. O Nanak, those faces shall be radiant in the Court of the True Lord.  || 2 || (Page 473)

Guru Nanak and his successors gave woman a status equal to that of man. They regarded woman as man's companion in every walk of life. The Gurus thought this equality worked to their mutual benefits. For example, woman is the first teacher of man as his mother. Her function is to mould children and discipline them. She has to be educated so that her children may develop their potential to the fullest. She was allowed to join holy congregations, participate and conduct them. They were appointed missionaries. They were called 'the conscience of man'. The practice of Sati, (the custom of burning a woman with the dead husband on the funeral pyre), was prohibited and widow-remarriage was encouraged. Women soldiers fought side by side with male soldiers in one of the battles which the tenth Guru fought.

In the Sikh way of life, women have equal rights with men. There is absolutely no discrimination against women. Women are entitled to the Khalsa baptism. They have equal rights to participate in social, political and religious activities. Women are allowed to lead religious congregations, to take part in recitation of the holy scriptures, to fight as soldiers in the war, to elect representatives to the Gurdwara committees and Indian Parliament and Provincial Assembly. Sikh women have played a glorious part in the history, and examples of their moral dignity, service and upholding of Sikh values are a great source of inspiration. Sikh women never flinched from their duty, never allowed their faith and ardor to be dampened, and have always upheld the honor and glory of the Khalsa. (One famous example is that of Mai Bhago (Mata Bhaag Kaur) who bravely fought war for Guru Gobind Singh, when some Sikh soldiers deserted him and returned home).

"So kio manda akhiye jit jamme rajan"

A women is your friend, your mother, your sister, your daughter, your wife.. A man is bound. A women is also called as devi in Hinduism and women is called as a prince, a son of Guru in sikhism.. Women is equal to Men, so why to say bad about her.. There would be no one at all.

1 comment:

  1. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. I lament on our "Sikh" society today, I put Sikh in quotes because by name we may call ourselves Sikhs of our guru, but in practice, we are far from the dust of Sikhs. The respect for women that our gurus instilled in us has been diminishing over the centuries. Pick up any Punjabi newspaper, I assure you will find news about "girl raped," "girl killed," "bride burned to death by in-laws," "girl commits suicide," "poor farmer father commits suicide due to lack of property to marry his daughter." The truth is, we don't treat women equally; we treat them as possessions and we still think they are a burden. We can not call ourselves Sikhs, sangat Ji, until the day we start living up to the teachings of our gurus. There are a few gems amongst us who value, respect, and treat women equally; however gems are always outnumbered by coals; the rest of us are coals. May Waheguru Ji bless us all and allow us to see everyone as the jot of Waheguru Ji and live up to the idealistic image of equality that this article portrays.

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